Previously,I was never interested in gay sites to chat...i am more interested in googling nutritional products and learn more abt food supplements etc....and I was crazy playing board games on the net with every player in the world...not for money,but for points.And I ahd almost 6 wonderful years of doing nothing....not really...i did a fair bit of travelling...manily to Asian countries (more affordable!)...and have dinners and drinks with a few of my matured frens...but unfortunately,we have been doing this less and less due to one being posted overseas..and the rest have their own activities with their respective foreign partners...and only in the past 2 months,the loneliness and boredom sets in..i stop playing my board games and felt the need to meet up with real people...widen my circle of frens to hang out with.And thats the reason I got myself registered on this site...i have known abt this site for past 10 years...and did not feel the need to connect to ppl on this site..until now....purely out of loneliness.And I am glad I did,really....becos through this site,I have met a wonderful guy...we have had lunches and dinners...and enjoy meeting up with him...we had some wonderful crazy chit chats....normally,we just talk nonsense and only sometimes,a bit of serious talk...very little...as I dont really like heavy conversations.Now,i look forward to chatting with him on YM...I wld never have msg him,but i am truly glad he did msg me early this month....and took me a while to agree to meet up...the first meeting was uneventful..as we both were tongue tied...but through subsequent frequent chats on YM..we become more at ease with each other...now I do look forward to our silly talks!At least,it takes my mind off the loneliness and the boredom!Sad,but true...:( I feel like going back to my board game just to kill time...but I do feel doing that is a waste of my time...i need to go out more often to connect with the real world..and I am sure that there are nice ppl out there...few and far beteen,but there is!Well...better start mixing..otherwise you will have no frens...thats what my sister always tells me!!Guess she knows.