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13 Aug 2012

Lesbian couple wed in a Buddhist ceremony in Taiwan

A lesbian couple has become the first to wed in a same-sex Buddhist wedding ceremony in Taiwan; gay rights groups say they hope the island will become the first place in Asia to legalise same-sex marriage.

Both wearing white bridal gowns, Fish Huang and her partner You Ya-ting said their wedding vows and were blessed by Buddhist Master Shih Chao-hwei at a Buddhist monastery in Guanyin Township (觀音), Taoyuan County on Saturday. 

News and photos of the ceremony were widely reported by the media in Taiwan and across Asia on Sunday. 

Media reports noted that the pair, who are both aged 30 and has been in a relationship for seven years, exchanged prayer beads rather than rings as nearly 300 Buddhists chanted sutras to seek blessings for the couple. 

Shih Chao-hui, a female Buddhist master who presided over the ritual, hailed it as a historic moment. 

The Taipei Times quoted Shih as saying: "We are witnessing history. The two women are willing to stand out and fight for their fate... to overcome social discrimination," said Shih, a well-known advocate for social justice. 

"Some people might find it astounding (a woman performing the ceremony) but Buddhism does not engage in ideological struggles and I am used to strange looks from my own experience in the social movement," she said. 

The report also noted that the absence of the couple's parents at the ceremony to be "an indication of the pressure facing some homosexuals and their families." 

"Our parents initially agreed to attend and they regret that they couldn't be here. We understand that people have different acceptance of media exposure and we want to give them more space," the Times quoted Huang as saying shortly before the wedding.

"We hope with the master's support, the wedding will change many people's perspective even though it is not legally binding," said the social worker. "We hope the government can legalise same-sex marriage soon."

Huang added that they decided to have a Buddhist wedding because they are Buddhists and since around 80 percent of the population are more or less Buddhist, they hoped a wedding blessed by a Buddhist master would help change society’s views about same-sex marriage.

In a report about the wedding, AFP also noted that as early as 2003, Taiwan's cabinet had drafted a controversial bill to legalise same-sex marriage and allow homosexual couples to adopt children. However, President Ma Ying-jeou has said public consensus was needed before the government can move ahead with the law. Gay rights groups drafted a new bill earlier this year and urged Ma to push for its legislation before his term ends in 2016.

Reader's Comments

1. 2012-08-13 15:04  
Great。 祝福
2. 2012-08-13 15:04  
Great。 祝福
3. 2012-08-13 16:18  
aww makes my heart warm and fuzzy seeing this. congratulation! u guys looks good together.

also support for the this year Taiwan's bill for legalizing same sex marriage. hoping more and more Asian country proceeding in HUMAN rights. not just LGBT rights.

Please support even if u didn't planning to marry one day. Because the rights to marry is basic human rights. If they didn't allow us to they didn't treat us as human.
4. 2012-08-13 16:59  
good startded! all the best
5. 2012-08-13 18:00  
It's a good start.. Best Wishes to both of you...
6. 2012-08-13 18:17  
how fabulous! Peace to you both.

namo tassa bhagavato arahato samma sam buddha sa
7. 2012-08-13 18:55  
this is sweet! i wish them the best in their marriage.
8. 2012-08-13 19:05  
yeah, it is sweet! long live love!
9. 2012-08-13 20:33  
They look good together..
10. 2012-08-13 22:02  
May their love grow forever. Namo Great Compassion Bodhisattva _/\_
11. 2012-08-14 03:21  
Love is regarless of Race,Age & gender.I am so proud & happy 4 the both of U.Sincere wishes & blessings 2 yr future together.
12. 2012-08-14 03:21  
Love is regarless of Race,Age & gender.I am so proud & happy 4 the both of U.Sincere wishes & blessings 2 yr future together.
13. 2012-08-14 03:21  
Love is regarless of Race,Age & gender.I am so proud & happy 4 the both of U.Sincere wishes & blessings 2 yr future together.
14. 2012-08-14 08:34  
congrats and God bless!!! ^^
15. 2012-08-14 09:54  
Great news! It's a blessing to be able to see this splash across all over Asia's newspaper.. Congrats and many blessings to the newlyweds and may this bring a new tide to LGBT community! Yay to the 21st century minds!
16. 2012-08-14 10:53  
Beautiful! Congrats!
17. 2012-08-14 12:20  
congrate ^^
18. 2012-08-14 13:50  
Lovely couple, congratz!!
19. 2012-08-14 19:53  
best wishes
20. 2012-08-14 21:31  
I put their picture on my Weixin, loads of positive comments including many Rinpoches who I am lucky enough to count amongst my friends/acquaintances, Khenpo Samden Gyatso, a Gelugpa Abbott was full of support for them, he ended his comment with "Happiness is Wisdom", Buddha Shakyamuni never said anything against homosexuality, as long as all sexual conduct is consensual then fine.
Gongxi Ni! Jia you! Thank you for being such brave inspiring pioneers taking a further step towards understanding and equal rights for us all.
THANK YOU! OCEANS OF GRATITUDE! RESPECT AS WIDE AND VAST AS THE SKY! Wish them both all the best
21. 2012-08-17 08:26  
Good day everyone! I have a friend in the UK who just launched a charity to provide legal representation to LGBT asylum seekers in the UK, who have fled their country because of their sexual orientation. I think this could be a great help to our "brothers and sisters" who are victims of injustice in their respective country. My problem is, I am not a perks member here and I don't know how to put the link.. If someone could help me, please send me a message at galileo0032

Thanks a lot...

Galileo

www.facebook.com/pages/No-Going-Back/265474863563532?ref=notif¬if_t=fbpage_fan_invite

here is the link... please "like" it

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