Are you constantly worried of looking out of shape? Do you constantly hunger to be bigger, brawnier, and more muscular, yet never feel satisfied despite hours upon hours in the gym?
For gay men, going to the gym is almost a religious event. We look at some of the habits, personalities, and truths behind this obsession with the body beautiful.
Kinks are not something we can safely debate without forcing a definition of how they should be. I believe they are too personal, and benefit from the oppression of silence we grant them. I have my own kinks. I like them. My friends all have theirs.