The following is an excerpt from The Sunday Telegraph:
The singer, 62, said he was deeply traumatised by the suicide of the man, with whom he had been involved in a relationship before he "married" David Furnish, a film-maker 15 years his junior, in 2005.
"Years back I had a relationship, and I had absolutely no idea in the world he was going to do this... he threw himself under a truck," Sir Elton said. "There was so much grief."
Mr Furnish told The Sunday Telegraph that the lover, whom he declined to name, had taken his life because he was traumatised by the clash between his Christianity and his sexual inclinations.
"He was so tortured by the conflicting views between his sexuality and his strong religious beliefs that he chose to take his own life," said Furnish, whom Sir Elton "married" in a ceremony at Windsor Guildhall on the first day that civil partnerships could be performed in England. "It is very sad indeed."
Mr Furnish, a former advertising executive, added that "out of respect" for the dead man's family he would not name him.
Sir Elton, who has a fortune estimated at £175 million, said his grief had inspired him to provide financial support for a stage play that opened in New York last week.
The couple are producers of the play, Next Fall, which documents the relationship between two homosexual men: one a young Christian from the southern states of America; the other, a non-believer. One of the men suffers an accident.
"It's the right timing for this," said Mr Furnish. "The religious divide between Right and Left has gotten wider, and so the rights of gay people never got back to where it was heading."
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The Church still insists "love the sinner, but hate the sin", as if there were some kind of essential difference between being gay and having gay thoughts (like guys having feelings for guys) and doing gay things (like men having sex with men) (I mean, why would you if you WEREn't gay in the first place). This is ontology versus theology.
This arbitrary separation of the "soul" from the "body", this sentence of isolation and alienation from the body that the Church imposes on its gay people is an utterly cruel act and, in my opinion, directly responsible for tragic stories such as the one above. I could recount many others.
Sorry had some experience with suicide (3 friends) and its very sad but also a decision.
Its the people left behind that suffer. It seems he was in torment with himself and his beliefs, not outside hatred.
what a sad decision had made!!
They must be really happy and proud that because of their intense and immense doctrine of distorted set of values, have pushed more than one gay person to their deaths.
I am lucky to have never felt anything but love and tolerance in any of the churches I have attended in my life.
I understand that some falsely manipulate The Word and use it for their own devices, but most churches embrace and love those that come to them.
I was victim to the church's weapon of guilt and suffered a breakdown. I had three years of psychiatric therapy before I finally was able to believe that my gay sexuality is a gift from God and I have nothing to feel guilty about.
I recommend that gay christians open themselves to other interpretations of traditional scriptures that prohibits homosexuality. The Bible has suffered many inaccurate translations and editing by the "Church and the Church has never shown complete integrity in their interpretation of the Bible.
watch Prayers for Bobby or read the book, it was filmed in Royal Oak Michigan (made to look like in Castro San Fran)
Again, I believe in US, too has gay friendly churches but who has the truth right to say on behalf on god?
I always believe if you do think you say god's word, show and prove it not just say it.
You pursuit yr own happiness, health and fortune not someone else.
May he be free from suffering and enmity
May he never again encounter hatred and delusion
May he be free from Samsara and its bonds
May he attain the Final Bliss of Nirvana!
"There are those who do not realize that one day we all must die. But those who do realize this settle their quarrels."
The Dhammapada
An old Catholic prayer for his repose:
"May Eternal Rest grant unto him, O Lord and let Thy Perpetual Light shine upon him and may he rest in peace"
At the end of the day we have to recognize that being homosexual is simply an attraction to one's own sex, and does not impact upon any moral or cultural aspect of one's life. The problem is we have associated homosexuality with a very urban construct, that of being 'gay', and while it is necessary to band together at a time when homosexuals are maligned and sometimes the subject of bigotry we have to learn to accept ourselves first before others can accept us. Acceptance does not exist at a financial or sexual level, nor does it lie in forgoing wealth or inhibiting the sensual, as religion tries to make us believe, it lies in seeing ourselves as normal people.
Modern gay culture? Read up on history and you will find them exercising their "rules" on various gay people and practises.
xoxxoox
Ken
PS. there are several contributors in this forum that people should ... well, be aware of ... ... ... bottom line, dont get too worked up or influenced by what was written here ... we do not know these people, their leaning(s) and or hidden agenda ... if any
My wife always say, "We can always agree to disagree". They don't have to agree with you in anything you believe, the same for you, you don't have to agree in anything they believe in. If they think you're wrong & if you think they're right, that's when you'll start to feel guilty, that's what they want.
Im not saying come out but personally couldnt give a rats ass what a church or anyone thinks.
live
Period.
Personally, i'm a non believer, i mean why should i believe in things that i can't see myself? Who created the scriptures and bibles anyway? Aren't all those used for controlling people's mind? Why should i follow what's writen in there since it's made by human beings to begin with? Wouldn't it be foolish to follow something that could be wrong, or worse let you end up dead?
I'm a father, ex-Mormon and now an Anthiest. I was sent away to behaviour modification and church therapy for many years. The pressure was so intense that I attempted to take my life twice at age 40.
NOW, I believe in being true to myself and work with gay-students at my high school, in teaching them that THEY ARE NORMAL and no religion, god or group of people have the right to tell them otherwise.
I am so proud to be gay and couldn't imagine being anything else!
They will thunder at you: "This is the Only god, the Real god, This is the Only name of god, all others are false", blah blah blah.
But god does not come with a particular name or passport number or social security number, for someone to say that This is god and That is NOT god.
If this so-called real god of theirs is so powerful, why does he need you to do his dirty work for him? Why can't he deal with you himself once you're dead and at his mercy? Why are these people taking it upon themselves to attack you in the name of this "loving" god of theirs?
Any religions that talk about true and false gods are evil. The very nature of their understanding of god makes them evil; the cause of most suffering on this planet today.
As stated in the ancient Rig Veda of Hinduism, thousands of years before these prophets of hate even came into being:
"the Truth is one but the sages call it by different names".
Hinduism, even while having millions of gods, also regards them all as different aspects of the same One Reality, whatever that is supposed to be.
These ancient philosophies, including Buddhism, Daoism, and so on, could all have, just as easily, laid claim to THEIR god as the TRUE god. They could all just as easily have declared that anything else was false, evil, etc. But they didn't, and they don't. Such claims are made only by shallow, self-serving religions stage-managed by insecure, paranoid people.
Here's a simple test for you: Ask yourself, does your religion, which endlessly blackmails you emotionally by bombarding you with declarations of god's love for you, use terms like false gods, false prophets, devil's spawn, non-believer, infidel, etc. to turn you away from others? If so, it is EVIL. Shun it.
Even a drop of poison in a pot of honey makes the whole honey pot poisonous. You wouldn't drink from it, would you?
Wake up! Homosexuality is holy and divine, cos' Jesus is queer. Since God is queer, anyone claims to be able to change homosexuality claims to be greater than God. But who is greater than God and change Him? Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever! Satan deceives the church and Muslims and mislead them, so that queer people can never find a refuge when those religious people who claims to have the Truth preach a lie instead.
Thus, it is urgent to start a new religion, proclaiming the Jesus is queer, purchased gay marriage on the crosss by His blood. He struggled so that we no need to struggle anymore now. Never commit suicide, cos' once you do so, you will never enjoy His grace of gay marriage anymore!
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