The following was first published as an op-ed in The Washington Post on Oct 23, 2010. The writer is the United Nations high commissioner for human rights.
Seth Walsh walked into the garden of his family's home in Tehachapi, Calif., last month and hanged himself. He was just 13. Before making the tragic decision to end his life, however, he had endured years of homophobic taunting and abuse from his peers at school and in his neighborhood. He is one of six teenage boys in the United States known to have committed suicide in September after suffering at the hands of homophobic bullies.
Homophobia, like racism and xenophobia, exists to varying degrees in all societies. Every day, in every country, individuals are persecuted, vilified or violently assaulted, even killed, because of their sexual orientation and gender identity. Covert or overt, homophobic violence causes enormous suffering that is often shrouded in silence and endured in isolation.
It is time we all spoke up. While responsibility for hate crimes rests with the perpetrators, we all share a duty to counter intolerance and prejudice and demand that attackers be held to account.
The first priority is to press for decriminalization of homosexuality worldwide. In more than 70 countries, individuals still face criminal sanctions on the basis of their sexual orientation. Such laws expose those concerned to the constant risk of arrest, detention and, in some cases, torture or even execution. They also perpetuate stigma and contribute to a climate of intolerance and violence.
But as important as decriminalization is, it is only a first step. We know from experience in those countries that have removed criminal sanctions that greater concerted efforts are needed to counter discrimination and homophobia, including legislative and educational initiatives. Here again, we all have roles to play, particularly those in positions of authority and influence, such as politicians, community leaders, teachers and journalists.
Sadly, those who should be exercising restraint or using their influence to promote tolerance too often do just the opposite, reinforcing popular prejudice. In Uganda, for example, where violence against people based on their sexual orientation is commonplace, and activists defending the rights of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people face harassment and the threat of arrest, a newspaper published a front-page story on Oct. 2 "outing" 100 Ugandans it identified as gay or lesbian and printed their photographs alongside the headline "Hang Them."
We must recognize such "journalism" for what it is: incitement to hatred and violence.
Political leaders and those who aspire to public office have a particularly important duty to use their words wisely. The candidate for public office who, rather than appealing for tolerance, makes casual remarks denigrating people on the basis of their sexuality may do so in the belief that he or she is indulging in harmless populism -- but the effect is to legitimize homophobia.
Last month I spoke in Geneva as part of a panel discussion on decriminalizing homosexuality. The event was sponsored by a diverse group of 14 European, North American, South American and Asian countries. In a video message, Archbishop Emeritus Desmond Tutu lent his support and spoke with passion about the lessons of apartheid and the challenge of securing equal rights for all. "Whenever one group of human beings is treated as inferior to another, hatred and intolerance will triumph," he said. It should not take hundreds more deaths and beatings to convince us of this truth. It is up to all of us to demand equality for all our fellow human beings, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
Reader's Comments
We should stop blaming religions for all these bad occasions that affect us gays. After all, religions are the ones that shape our modern civilisations, laws and cultures to be what it is now. It is extremely naive to place the blame on religion when most of such events occur in a free liberal part of the world like the US and Europe. Gay bashings seldom occur in Asian countries.
Still any voice against homophobia is a welcome voice
There is no person more venomous than a religious gay basher...99.998% of all homophobia has its origins in religious ignorance
When in actual fact, history has proven that our civilisations got its hospitals, charities, organisations, laws all from Religion. Without religion we will just be like animals. Simply absurd thinking going on now.
Do we think we can live and prosper without religion? I can bet we will turn into cannibals eating anything, and have free sex with men and animals, and slowly we will turn into Animals just like the Animists or the Pagans in ancient Europe...cause there were no barriers, restrictions, guidelines, cultures to guide us. I am not exaggerating. Just go back to old history and learn. What happens in the past can happen again if humans make the same mistake.
I personally find Pornography boring. But if others enjoy it in the confines of their home, that is fine with me. Its not government's role to say what grown adults should do in their private lives. And for that matter religion should have no bearing in our lives as well.
If you have the opportunity to watch a documentary made by PBS (Public Broadcasting Syndication) titled "Rome Empire in the First Century. This movie will, hopefully, open your knowledge and re-think about what history books have told you to believe. One of my history teacher once made the distinction between "studying the history" versus "studying the study of history."
In this movie, written facts are studied and verified with other written stories to make sense of what really happened in the time those written facts were written. Were they describing reality? or just reflections of the writers' ideals conflicts (aka fictions) or political purposes. This is more of an analytical studies because reading was only a skill for the haves, the poor were prevented to have this skill. So the only way the poor "know" some information is by being "told" by the person of power with whatever purposes "he" wants to gain from the illiterate poor people. After that I would like to know your opinion. Good luck!.
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