Fridae

Is it really that hard to do? What is the optimal position? What if you have tendency to gag? Are there any additional health risks? Alvin Tan answers some of your very pressing questions.

And 'who's the man?' Every lesbian has probably been asked these questions at least once since coming out. How about labels, do they determine who does what in bed?

Are You dealing with loneliness? How do You feel? What are You doing? Fire Sia contemplates loneliness, love, happiness - life.

Dan Madigan ponders the gay obsession with straight acting men and illicit sexual encounters.

Lesbians and sex toys - now, we don't need to elaborate further to get your attention, do we? Read on as Vicky Yau gets her friends in Hong Kong to open up (pun intended).

This week, Fire Sia relives her memories on being a teenage tomboy, her attraction towards girls, the urge to be masculine and the need to look stronger than other girls.

Top or bottom? Active or passive? Arthur or Martha? Whether we admit it or not, this is the question on every gay man's mind when assessing potential pick-ups.

Jewels recounts her coming out experience when she was 16 years old; and shares some excerpts from her bittersweet letters to her mother.

Some gay men and lesbians may not face up to their homosexuality until later in life. Alvin Tan explores the reasons why some choose to affirm their gay or lesbian identities however late it may be.

We've all been there before, fighting for our own identities, set of friends, individual goals, and even beliefs. Fire Sia is back with her column in response to an email from a friend about being suffocated in her relationship.